We are more than we imagine ourselves to be. It’s what we tell our children, our parents, our friends. But how often do we tell it to ourselves? And if we do, how often do we prove it? How often do we challenge ourselves to do something new? ~ Veronica Chambers
There’s something extraordinary about looking out to a sea of faces and not only feel the energy of limitless possibilities and potential, but also see light radiating. Yes, we do glow! Whenever I speak, whether it is at an event or during a workshop, I always pause in the beginning. I allow myself to be still and breathe it all in. Without realizing it, the very people in the audience, conference room or retreat center are giving me a gift. More often than not, individuals are surprised by what I, and others, see in them.
Do you remember a time when someone approached you and shared some FABULOUS insight they were sensing about you, and you were shocked. You mean, me?? Yet, you are able to see all of this tremendous light, love and potential in others. I don’t believe we are afraid of not being good enough. Contained within each and every one of us are unique and delicious gifts, and we are so very powerful. It is knowing beyond knowing just how special we are, whether we are conscious of it or not, that fear lies. As Marianne Williamson so eloquently stated it, “It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us.”
Why in the world do I want that kind of responsibility on my shoulders?!? Come on, I know at some point in your life you have thought those words. I know I have. The moment I realized my life purpose, I came up with a TON of reasons why that was ridiculous. What if I don’t measure up? What if I’m not enough? All of us, every single person on this planet, are more than enough. We just have to awaken to this fact. The whole idea of knowing beyond knowing can certainly sound strange to others and ourselves. How can I know beyond knowing? Well, it’s because sometimes seeing is believing, and sometimes the most real things in the world, are those we don’t see.
I embrace the philosophy of creating and living a Life’s Dash that is dynamic, delicious and celebrates and honors who and what we are. What is a Life’s Dash? It’s the precious time between arrival and departure from this world that many of us take for granted. Our realization of what we are meant to do doesn’t always show up when we are in college, picking out our major. At 18, I had no idea what I wanted to do for a career. What I did know for sure, were all of things that brought me passion, but I never did find the right and perfect major that encapsulated it all. For me, it happened in my late 30s. I began to listen to the nagging internal presence that I tried to ignore for years. But there is a moment; we all have them, when there is an incredible force of energy that shakes you, gently but firmly, into knowing. My moment occurred at 3:00 am in Venice, Italy where I was celebrating my 40th birthday.
When you are ready to rock it out with transformation to a life you so richly deserve, you think okay… I want it and I want it RIGHT NOW! (Oh my do I understand those words!) This is indeed an exciting time, and make sure you ENJOY it. If you have made a conscious choice to create a dynamic and delicious life, and if you know beyond knowing that you deserve a dynamic and delicious life than you are really ahead of the game! Indeed the beginning is the most important part! Many people hit roadblocks during the first few weeks and months that appear discouraging. What they thought were divine dreams, ideas or goals start to look and feel like nothing more than “fantasy”.
If you feel that there isn’t enough evidence that things are moving, and motivation, focus and inspiration are dwindling, consider these ideas:
√ Be GENTLE with yourself. As I mentioned earlier, this is an exciting time! It’s not a race to the finish line, and you can’t compare your progress with anyone else. We are all unique and have our own paths to follow.
√ Keep a DAILY gratitude journal. Every day people, experiences and opportunities occur that are guiding you toward the realization of your goals. Sometimes we are so busy looking for the fireworks, that we don’t realize the importance of the match that ignites the flame. It’s also important to be thankful for what you did each day. How did you make a difference in the life of another? Expressing gratitude helps us to remember just how much we are moving and progressing.
√ EMPOWER your day. Greet the day with an intention and affirmation that supports you and your good. Take the time to breath in and express gratitude for all that will show up. Also, read your gratitude journal entry from the night before as a reminder of how abundant and prosperous your life truly is.
√ Breathe. Every hour take a five-minute break to breathe. Find a quite space for you to close your eyes, breathe and center on the intention and affirmation you claimed in the morning. If you have time for TV, Starbucks runs, and updating Facebook, you have time to BREATHE!
√ Check-in with you. Are you open and receptive to opportunities? Are you saying yes or are you hesitating? If you hesitate or say no, take the time to note how you are feeling and what old tapes have come up for you. As we experience transformation, false truths show up that are ready to be healed. In the meantime, you need to honor (not validate) what these blocks and fears are in order to understand why they showed up.
You have the divine right to the best!
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Humanity’s misfortune is when we don’t realize the very gifts we are! We don’t serve the rest of the world or ourselves by playing small. Live your life big! Own your truth! We must embrace the knowing that we deserve to live a life we love, one that supports who and what we are. We need to be willing to say, ‘Yes! I choose me!’
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© 2011 Michele Mattia. All Rights Reserved.
Michele, a nationally recognized speaker on both tv and radio, is an Inspirational Speaker, Best Selling Author, Life Design Coach, New Thought Leader and Creative Strategist. During a silent retreat five years ago, she asked herself the question: “What would I do right now if I wasn’t worried about the “how”?” What manifested next was nothing short of extraordinary! Specializing in Life Design, Michele’s mission is to inspire, support and co-create all possibilities her clients and audiences are courageous enough to demand. She motivates others to claim their unique gifts and talents, while owning that they deserve to create a dynamic and delicious life. Michele believes, we must embrace the knowing that we deserve to live a life we love, one that supports who and what we are. We need to be willing to say, “Yes! I choose me!” To learn more about Michele and receive Michele’s Daily Dash, an empowering eZine, go to www.MicheleMattia.com
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